(socially acceptable, non-crass how to ask chicks to fall asleep with you)
updated: March 17 2019 – haha – “Netflix and Chill” had been originally our ‘idea’, nevertheless now it is mainstream!
If you should be home about this Saturday night, it better be along with your fuckbuddy half-naked close to you as you both read Good Looking Loser. I spent so many nights at home in my 20’s saturday. I be sorry too.
If you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other guys interact with random girls check out our program if you can’t talk to girls at night, just go out and see. Even although you do not say a word the whole time – it really is better for your “game” than reading my disgraceful creepy weblog.
I did a video (see below) and wasn’t planning to execute a post with this ‘common sense’ topic but I made a decision it had been an idea that is good every person see this.
Guys that “research” sex/dating regarding the Web often experience ‘information overload’ and literally freeze up in their interactions or have no idea how to locate down where in fact the girls stands.
They likewise have drawn in a lot of “game” disinformation that Good Loser that is looking is responsible for reversing.
I’m certain you have seen those “Asking 100 Girls For Intercourse” or “Will You have intercourse if they will sleep with him with me?” viral YouTube videos where a guy asks 100 girls. Usually he asks the question while the very first thing he claims.
As an example –
(do not bother watching these in complete)
In some cases girls see the camera, in some cases not. That does not really matter.
The results are identical in every the videos –
>98% of this girls state “No.”
Here you will find the two ways –
Dining Table of Contents
0:00 The YouTube “social experiments” – what do they mean?
1:45 Verbal vs. physical screening (physical will CONSTANTLY get you further, faster)
4:15 “can you choose to get together for a glass or two ?” “Lets grab a drink tonight.”
(try not to suggest it is a date or coffee)
5:45 Logistical concerns – where guys that nail 50+ girls via cool approach
7:25 “can you want to come over and watch a film ?” “You should visit and now we’ll view a film .”
8:20 “Normal” guys that Get Laid a great deal use both of these ALL TIME.
9:45 Stupid egghead rebuttal: “seeking rapport/asking questions” is wrong.
11:20 A note on how”game that is much really matters.
12:00 Which is better? Verbal or physical material?
12:45 ways to get faster because of the stuff this is certainly real />15:00 utilize both: ask girl to meet up for a drink, then her to come over for the movie/drink.
no. 1 Offer to meet for a Drink
(“You need to grab a drink tonight? Lets do this.”)
This proposition, among guys that get a lot of pussy, may be the solitary most utilized line when you look at the reputation for the universe.
Every girl when you look at the universe (unless you REALLY seem like boyfriend material) understands it is an invite for future sex.
It will be the universal, polite, socially acceptable invite for sex.
If you’re seeking to get Laid, it is a better alternative than asking a girl to “dinner” so she starts taking a look at you as a possible boyfriend and withholds her pussy until such time you are emotionally invested which means you don’t believe she’s a slut.
Perhaps the minority of apprehensive girls that think “he’s probably just hoping to get me personally drunk”, will ironically totally allow you to achieve this – if they’re intimately available and DTF.
Lots of guys are frightened to use this idea since it’s “overused” or “too normal”.
That is ridiculous, the wish to be creative/witty is definitely insecurity and inexperience that is social.
(i am there, trust me)
Others are afraid that girls will think “this guy would like to rape me”.
Emotionally healthy girls WILL NOT THAT that is THINK.
A DTF girl will likely not ignore a courteous invite to have a glass or two if she likes you with you.
We completely encourage one to utilize this proposition EACH TIME before taking a woman’s quantity.
no. 2 Offer to look at a Movie/Hangout (at your home)
(“the trend is to drop by tonight therefore we’ll grab/watch a film and spend time?”)
If “grabbing a drink” is the number 1 idea of all-time, “watch a movie/hangout” is #1b.
It might be number 1 really, this is what everyone else whom Gets Laid in university uses when they’ren’t at events.
(but it is often the ‘after party’ pretense)
Just like the prior proposition, girls realize “watch a movie” become an invite for sex (or at the least some kind of messing around).
Like “getting a drink”, the “watch a movie/hangout” idea is socially appropriate, courteous rather than too forward.
Possibly it is obvious however you are proposing to “watch a movie”, “pick up a film” (go out) and not “see a movie” or “go to a movie” (date).
Make that clear.
(it often is when you state “hangout”)
The invite is just a excuse that is socially acceptable your ex to come over and fool around – at ANY TIME.
On a more traditional date) you can use this pretense to get the girl to come over afterward if you are “getting a drink” with a girl (or find yourself.
All girls understand what this means.
Girls know this and can come over looking means hotter than if they were simply likely to watch a movie.
A “movie/hangout” could be the universal socially acceptable means for getting a lady to come over, but these options are appropriate too –
Come over and now we’ll chill.
Come over and then we’ll make some food while having some drinks.
Come over and we also’ll just chill when you look at the tub that is hot.
Come over and now we’ll smoke weed.
Come over so we’ll do a little blow.
These pretenses are not necessarily necessary she is your fuckbuddy (just tell/ask her to come over) – but can be useful after you have fucked the girl and.
You do not need any kind of pretenses compared to those 2.
How/Why Performs This “Work”!?
This woman is usually simply waiting around for the opportunity to achieve this.
Preferably, the lady should ALREADY KNOW JUST what you are actually searching (intercourse, not a girlfriend) for when she is met by you, however these propositions will keep without doubt.
Because of this after you meet them that I don’t believe in garbage like “text game” or “working on” girls. Even yet in the instances that are small it may look to the office, it is barely efficient and it’s likely that – the lady ALREADY liked you.
The next time you need to communicate (verbally) with her and want to know where she stands – just suggest a “drink” or “movie/hangout” that you want to sleep.
You will get your answer.
If you aren’t comfortable being physical with girls although I encourage, physical screening (a little goes a long way, especially during the day), this type of “verbal screening” is a nice way to get to the point.
(still – you will need to get more comfortable with it, spoken assessment will not be as effective as real screening + small talk)
Once per week, some body asks how to get a lady to come over or wonders the right way to step up a “hang out” in the place of a romantic date.
Then that’s good news if this was common sense to you (therefore you should have ALREADY have experience using these pretenses at least 20-30 times.
Odds are – you have got recently been Laid that is getting and this tangled up some free ends.
If it absolutely wasn’t commonsense, at this point you have actually the proper response to –
Just What do i actually do to meet (and never date) a woman?
This can be as simple as it gets as soon as a girl likes you – she’s going to jump during the opportunity to get yourself a drink/movie and chill to you.